Why do we have the making love experience & how does it come about

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Why do we have the making love experience & how does it come about

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Senta Christine's picture
I am sorry to hear that

I am sorry to hear that anyone needs viagra. I am talking about the making love experience, not just having random intercourse with any ???person

arakish's picture
So, I guess you are sorry for

So, I guess you are sorry for yourself? With those beliefs of yours, I seriously doubt you can get anything up.

rmfr

Senta Christine's picture
I am female.

I am female.

arakish's picture
Still applicable. rmfr

Still applicable.

rmfr

Cognostic's picture
I doubt it.

I doubt it.

Cognostic's picture
I fall in love with every

I fall in love with every random person I bone, er.... um.... make love to.... for a night. Intercourse is never random. I have to unzip and unbutton my pants, take off my underwear, find a comfortable place on the ground, find a way to stop the screaming .... Nothing Random about it.

Senta Christine's picture
Classy

Classy

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
Simples We "all" do not.

Simples
We "all" do not.

Senta Christine's picture
Are you talking about priests

Are you talking about priests and nuns?

CyberLN's picture
How does it come about? It

How does it come about? It usually starts with flirting.

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
Nope.

Nope.
The human experience is much more varied than your limited view. There are celibates, both voluntary and involuntary, those with deformed or non existent, damaged, genetically different sexual organs. Those that are psychologically incapable of intimacy to name but a few.

Your choice of an absolute is flawed.

Senta Christine's picture
Have it your way. You know I

Have it your way. You know I believe this is hell for some people. So why do most of us have the making love experience?

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
@ Santa

@ Santa

Now you are trying a presuppositionalist argument.

Most humans have a sexual experience of some kind even if it is only with themselves.

The sexual drive is hard wired into our psyche, indeed into almost every binary (sexual) species on earth.
Humans are not unique, it is how we all procreate.
In humans that is now changing , as is the process of giving birth with many women in "advanced' countries opting for cesareans or surrogate parenthood for cosmetic or emotional reasons. Many women (and I have no doubt, men) will be able to artificially inseminate as partners are no longer physically necessary.

And back to your OP many women and girls do not have that 'making love' experience as they are thrust into arranged marriages and (though not legally by definition) raped throughout their lives.

If you have had "the making love experience" then you are lucky in comparison to many, many women in most religions.

Please do not equate having loving sex therefore god. It's ridiculous.

Did you go to a Christian College?

Senta Christine's picture
Heck no, I was raised by

Heck no, I was raised by atheists and I am not even a Christian. I think everyone who is not in hell here has the making love experience, and my question is why do we have that amazing experience and what is causing it?

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
@ Senta

@ Senta

I think everyone who is not in hell here has the making love experience, and my question is why do we have that amazing experience and what is causing it?

Ok. So everyone who has NOT had the "lovemaking experience" (as yet undefined) but not including loveless sex, rape or masturbation, physical or psychological barriers to having that experience, is (according to your unevidenced assertion) in hell.

Well...we have had some looney tunes posting here but ...really....I am undecided to laugh or cry at sheer idiocy of this statement.

Senta Christine's picture
I guess it was worded

I guess it was worded awkwardly. For the purposes of this, lets limit it to people living in the United States since that is the country I am in and I am not discussing third world problems. So- to be more specific, I think it is fair to say most people in the U.S, and on this thread have probably been in love and while in love, probably experienced an amazing love making experience that was almost spiritual (remember that I did say MOST, not all)and I am truly sorry if you don't know what I am referring to.

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
@ Santa

@ Santa

I would love to get your stats for "most", especially in the US, which in parts of the country are the most repressed outside of Pakistan. Child marriage is still legal in some States, which can hardly be described as the union of soulmates. .

I for one am well aware of what you are referring to when you say " amazing love making experience". It is a shame that you cannot express yourself clearly.

Senta Christine's picture
You have been misled. No one

You have been misled. No one in the United States is repressed and child marriage is not legal in any state.

Dragonfly's picture
You're wrong on both counts.
Senta Christine's picture
That is not child marriage.

That is not child marriage. People can get married at 16 in the US if they have permission from their parents. 16 years old is not a child.

Algebe's picture
Back in the 1960s, Jerry Lee

Back in the 1960s, Jerry Lee Lewis (Great Balls of Fire) came to New Zealand on tour with his 13-year-old wife in tow. We were all pretty disgusted, because having sex with a 13yo was (and is) completely illegal. The government wanted to deport the swine, but in the end they compromised by putting her in a different hotel. They were legally married in Tennessee.

[EDIT]
When I said "swine", I was referring to Jerry, not his child-bride.

arakish's picture
And if I remember correctly,

And if I remember correctly, and may not due me failing memory, the State of Delaware still has a law where it is legal for marriage to a 12 or 13 or 14 year old. And there are other state laws that allow for children to be married. I am going off to research this...

rmfr

EDIT: was right about memory, it ain't Delaware, but 18 have no age floor limit...

arakish's picture
Found it.

Found it.

https://www.tahirih.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/FINAL-Oct-2018-State-Statutory-Compilation.pdf

18 states have no minimum age, meaning you can get married to a new born baby. YUCK!

rmfr

EDIT: Between 2000 and 2015, over 200,000 minors were legally married in the United States (Wikipedia).

Dragonfly's picture
In case you're still lurking,

In case you're still lurking, go back and reread the article for comprehension this time. There are children under 16 who have been married. Just denying everything you don't like doesn't make it less true.

Tin-Man's picture
@Senta Re: "No one in the

@Senta Re: "No one in the United States is repressed..."

Pray tell, what exactly is the name of the delusional little world in which you exist? Just wanting to know so that I avoid accidently straying into it.

David Killens's picture
You are living in a fantasy

You are living in a fantasy world. Ever hear of Warren Jeffs?

David Killens's picture
Did it ever hit your brain

Did it ever hit your brain that people outside of the USA can enjoy sex and have orgasms?

arakish's picture
@ David

@ David

You're kidding, right? You know no one can have as enjoyable sex as us Americans. After all, we have the Christian deity watching our every move. The knowledge of that voyeurism is just so... so... thrilling and magnifies the sensation. People in an atheist country, like Canada, just don't get that same... same... effect. Thus, they cannot enjoy sex as much as us Americans...

>:P

rmfr

David Killens's picture
But we compensate by having

But we compensate by having hockey.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPZeyTkxunA

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