Do I feel forgotten? Not at all! Christmas trees, tinsel, presents, lights, a Yule log, and the other bright and joyful ways the old pagans celebrated the return of the sun are a fun setting for a nice, family gathering and an especially good dinner. Once the hassle of buying and wrapping gifts is done, the cards sent out and, for many women, the dinner is made, its a time to kick back with some eggnog and family and enjoy the beauty of it all. Beautiful lights adorn some of the more energetic homes.