So….
For last 4 months i have been seeing this muslim girl… relationship started on sexual/romantic note immediately…. both aged 28...
After couple of week she started to finding problems regarding us that are not realistic, and absolutely ridiculous…. i somehow managed to resolve every problem that she found together with her, and assigned all this “problem” to the fact that i do not know history of her relationships and perhaps she has trust issues when it comes to man…
After few weeks she clearly stated that she want just to be friends, on which i said that i agree with that since we both had really good time when we were together. Very similar looks on way how world works, same interests, lets say we clicked and could spend whole weekend together without single misunderstanding or fight.
During this period we were talking about our religious view, where she stated that she is muslim but not following to the core this religion but only spiritual aspects of it, which i respect a lot even that I'm atheist all the way.. and as she said her family is the same... how we hanged together almost every day, from my part deeper feeling started to develop, and how i saw it from her side also, but she was from to me unknown reason blocked them… but for me was something worth of lets say waiting since i had really good time with her…
Couple of days ago Ramadan started, and she stated that her parents are fasting and she will also do the same, my eyebrows went up, but my point of view is, if its not lets say touching me i will respect it and support it. Meanwhile we we were planing trip together for 3-4 days, but suddenly she said that is a problem for her in this Ramadan month, when i asked why, she declared that she has to pray 5 times a day… and for me it was a big sing that she is not just following spiritual aspects of this religion, but all the way…
I went into studying basic aspects of Islam and found out that is strictly forbidden for Muslim women to marry(or have relationship) with non Muslim man, then i rolled everything to starting point and came to conclusion that its possible reason why everything went to friendship mode could be this, what do you think?
I didn't asked her this directly yet, since if I'm wrong i think she would be offended… still do not know what to do?!?!?!
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