My clients Girlfriend is struggling with her gender identification. For some people she uses her female name then in other groups its her male name. She cares what people think too much my client says. She's thinks about things like if I sit when I pee its going to sound different in the males bathroom. She so focused on how people will view her that wearing a ball cap is a monsterous decision. How can people care so much about who's in the stall next to them and not see how entering a society of preconceived normals as something different can be scary as Hell?