Are you afraid of death?

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TiaLee's picture
Like any self respecting

Like any self respecting creature, I am sure I would shit myself if I saw my death coming. Especially if it was going to be painful. I can't help it-I am a victim of my chemicals.

However, I have NO fear of BEING dead. I had no fear of anything before I was born; I figure I'll be in the same place.

Jeff Vella Leone's picture
well said

well said

Chuck Raymond's picture
I don't fret what happens

I don't fret what happens after death. If I can't remember the place where I had conscious awareness of existence prior to being an embryo in a womb, than that must be the place I return to after this biological life. I do, however, have a sense of immortality knowing a goodly amount of the 7 billion billion billion hydrogen, oxygen, and carbon atoms that are aligned to form my flesh bag will not die with my body, but will instead go on to help form other cells or organic structures in someone else, perhaps. As I'm typing this, for all I know, I could be breathing in one of the carbon dioxide atoms from Julius Caesar's last breath. The meaning of life is simply to enjoy our brief dance in existence as best we can.

zebo-the-fat's picture
I have no fear of death,

I have no fear of death, before I was alive I was dead, it didn't seem to cause any problems!
I do have a fear of dying, but that's quite different.

Älï Âkbår Sáfdàrî's picture
Yes, yes I am.

Yes, yes I am.
I know that its inevitable but it's a natural survival instinct to fear your death.
What really scares me about death is not that I won't be around anymore, but that I would by separated from my loved ones forever.

SirEugene's picture
Yeah, I am really scared to

Yeah, I am really scared to die... You wont know what place you had in the world, maybe you did something great and you were in a history book, or maybe people just forgot about you. Living is a privilege and it's something I wish I never had to lose... I am scared to die, even though my thoughts and emotions will be purposeless at that point, I still don't want to die...

ruslana's picture
I am afraid, and it is

I am afraid, and it is absolutely normal feeling, rather instinct, which helps to protect myself.
But i am happy, that after my death i will become nothing more, then fertilizer...do not really want my soul flying around ;D

Johnny Moronic's picture
Not afraid. Not in a hurry

Not afraid. Not in a hurry to get there at all, quite the opposite, but not afraid. I embrace it. In the words of Captain Picard: "Someone once told me that time was a predator that stalked us all our lives. But I rather believe than time is a companion who goes with us on the journey, and reminds us to cherish every moment, because they'll never come again.", and "Our mortality is part of what defines us." I concur. Knowing that I will die some day makes me want to really live, really grab life and squeeze every drop out of it. Imagine how unmotivated you would feel if you had forever to do everything.

ThePragmatic's picture
Well put.

Well put.

Jeff Vella Leone's picture
nah I disagree, If I was

nah I disagree, If I was eternal it would only mean that i do not need to hurry to learn things, and there is always something to learn.

Imagine how many things you miss in life just because you do not have the time needed to acquire that knowledge or experience.

Do you really wish to die of old age?, or remain young at your best(not too young)

Better, would you prefer to meet you grand grand children or die before seeing your grand children?

Captain Picard was just an apologetic in a movie plot :P

"Imagine how unmotivated you would feel if you had forever to do everything."
Depends how lazy or interested you are.
I love history and would love to have more time to study it all.

Pitar's picture
I'm brave now. I'll let you

I'm brave now. I'll let you know when the time comes. Stay tuned.

science's picture
I am somewhat afraid of death

I am somewhat afraid of death, but do not dwell on that subject. I am a cancer patient, and have faced death and fought back several times now. When faced with the possibility that I might not make it, I was so focused on what I needed to do, that it did not scare me. People call me one of the toughest individuals they know, but in reality I'm not so tough...I just don't want to die. I've honestly never heard anyone say that they weren't afraid of death, no matter what their belief. If anyone said that to me, I would say they are full of you know what. NO ONE wants to die...and if these people you say are not afraid of it, why does everyone, including the person faced with the dilemma, get so upset if they REALLY believe they are going to a "better place?" Everyone should be happy. It's all balony.

Reason Saves's picture
I'm afraid of being in pain

I'm afraid of being in pain or discomfort during the death process, but I'm not afraid of death. I wasn't afraid before I was born (due to nonexistence) so it's the same thing. I will miss some stuff and I would prefer some kind of spiritual consciousness after death just because I'm curious to see what happens to earth and humans in the future, but that's it.

Travis Hedglin's picture
I am not sure I am really

I am not sure I am really afraid of death at all. If I were to die tomorrow, I would fear for the future of my wife and young child. If it were when I was older, with my child well grown and doing fine and my wife already gone, I doubt I would have very many misgivings about it. If, however, I were to lose my wife and child tomorrow; I would probably welcome it posthaste. I think the great deal of our fears concerning death are actually because of "loose-ends" in our lives, and having them tied up relieves a great deal of that fear, and allows us to go to rest peacefully. I am not afraid of dying, I am afraid of failing those I care about, and terrified of the idea living longer than them.

HomunculusThor's picture
I'll comment on the post

I'll comment on the post tomorrow.
I'm just blown away that is was posted two days from now, and already has over 5000 reads.

HomunculusThor's picture
OOPS! I just saw 2014!

OOPS! I just saw 2014!
Never mind.

mianziyu's picture
I used to be very afraid of

I used to be very afraid of death during my Christianity days. Afraid of whether I am going to hell or heaven.

My fear has lessened now after discovering atheism. Knowing that death is something that's going to happen to everyone.

Antti Heikkinen's picture
I don't fear death per se. It

I don't fear death per se. It will come inevitably some day sooner or later. But since I think it is simply the end no different than a computer shut down, nothing beyond, I much prefer to play this intriguing game of life before it's check-out time.

Also, while I don't fear death I am mortified to think how would my family fare without me, and that makes me actively try to keep reasonably fit and stay alive at least until they can stand well on their own.

In fact, rather than death, I'm more afraid of perhaps living too long...it would seem rather unpleasant a thought to live past the point where I'd be completely at the mercy of others. I would prefer to check out myself if that comes to pass. I watched my mother linger on for years as little more than a confused scared remnant of human, unable to even move, and held her hand when she finally took her last breath and was freed. And sad as it was, ay the same time I was very happy her machine finally stopped and what remained of her consciousness ceased to exist, certainly a relief for her.

Tim Mahoney's picture
I am afraid of the death of

I am afraid of the death of my loved ones and I dread how they will feel about or cope with my death. but to quote Jim Jeffries, "I am not scared of dying, because I am an atheist. I won't even know I am dead. You know why? Because I'll be fucking dead."

jay-h's picture
Far more than any fear of

Far more than any fear of dying, is the fear of not dying --- specifically fear of going through years of physical and perhaps mental deterioration, fear of becoming unable to support myself, unable to care for myself.

Since death is inevitable, I very much want a fairly quick one.

RANJEET's picture
Everything have its expiry

Everything have its expiry date so I never was and never will afraid of death well that is my opinion about death .
I am student and we have very great poem about death in our first semester's syllabus I'd like to share that poem with you

WHEN I THINK OF DEATH

When I think of death and of late the idea has come with alarming frequency.
I seem at peace with the idea that a day will dawn when I will no longer be among those living in this valley of strange humors.
I can accept the idea of my own demise, but I am unable to accept the death of anyone else.
I find it impossible to let a friend or relative go into that country of no return.
Disbelief becomes my close companion and anger follows in its wake.
I answer the heroic question 'Death, where is thy sting? 'with 'it is here in my heart and mind and memories.'
- Maya Angelou

John Owen Jackson's picture
Death, technically, is not an

Death, technically, is not an event that is experienced in life - life ends then death takes over, and we know we are dead just as much as we knew before we were born (absolutely nothing)

Old man shouts at clouds's picture
Its an old OP but I will play

Its an old OP but I will play...

I am not afraid of death at all. Been there a couple of times already.

However the process leading up the final bows of my life, scares me shitless unless I can be in control of it, i.e at my own hand. Being helpless, in pain and reliant on the "good will" of the god botherers that haunt hospices and nursing homes fills me with a very rational terror.

the universal's picture
There is a great reason to

There is a great reason to fear, many billions of people have died before me and billions will continue after me.
I say that I do not fear death but I believe that it is the instinctive and learned knowledge of the pain and great suffering that is associated with dying.

The dying process is almost always painful and emotional traumatizing as we get old we have a harder time breathing, we have mobility and blood circulatory problems. There are many other problems that are associated with old age.

The dying process is most always a road of some type of hardship even if it is knowing that Your loved ones and friends are loosing You.

arakish's picture
CyberLN: "Are you afraid of

CyberLN: "Are you afraid of death?"

No. Also read this: Soul Shatter.

rmfr

Edit: Just realized this is 4 years old. It popped to the top of the list.

CyberLN's picture
I have read and appreciate it

I have read and appreciate it, arakish. TY

mickron88's picture
"4 years old."

"4 years old."

now you've learn from what i always notice arakish..hahah..

Tin-Man's picture
Am I afraid of death?....

Am I afraid of death?.... Naaaah... Met the guy and shook hands with him a few times over the years. Oh, sure, at first sight he looks all manacing and intimidating in that long black hooded robe, gripping that wicked looking scythe with those bony blanched-white fingers. But, really, he's not such a bad dude. He simply has a job to do that is much too often misunderstood by most people. Not his fault he gets a bum rap for doing a job that is a necessary part of nature. Cross paths with him enough, and you realize it's nothing personal. He simply carries out his duties indiscriminately as a natural part of life itself. So once you get past the whole "creep factor" of the robe, big blade, and skeletal hands, he's merely just a guy trying to do his job. Nothing to be afraid of there.

mickron88's picture
"shook hands"

"shook hands"

i think he's much afraid of you T-man..he phoned me and he said.. you gripped his hands too tight that you literally broke it...
that poor guy just seek console about what happen to his hands..poor thing..

shame on you T-man and your greasy powerful metallic hands..you broke his heart and his hands..

he told me that he won't ever go to your deathbed.. he'll resign as a ripper if you're the next in the list....

Tin-Man's picture
@Q

@Q

Well, death isn't really afraid of me. Not by a long shot. I think he just doesn't want to deal with the hassle of fighting me when the time comes. I ain't afraid of 'im, but I have no plans to go quietly if I can help it. lol

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